The Upright Bipedalist

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Study finds children with low self-esteem are often praised for personal qualities instead of efforts

This is another one that’s just stacking up on information we’ve suspected for a while. When a child is praised for being smart or talented, it makes the stakes that much higher because they need to stay smart or talented in order to maintain their identity. Here’s the crux of this study:

"Adults may feel that praising children for their inherent qualities helps combat low self-esteem, but it might convey to children that they are valued as a person only when they succeed," Brummelman said. "When children subsequently fail, they may infer they are unworthy."

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    Or you can raise kids that don’t blame their parents for every slight self esteem problem they have. All I see on this...
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